7 Myths About Building a Successful Online Community

“Community” is admittedly a buzz word, but it’s one we can’t avoid using in connection with building great blogs. It’s one of the essential elements of a total web presence for any person or organization.
The word community has to do with “sharing in common.” It’s a principle much older than the internet and dates back to the dawn of human civilization. Our work as bloggers and community managers isn’t to invent the concept of community, but to understand the social principles of community and apply them to our online villages.
Community isn’t as easy to understand as we might think. Human relationships are complex and often fragile, and building a successful online community requires more effort that many bloggers are willing to invest.
Here are seven myths about building online communities, and some correct alternative conclusions…
If You Build It, They Will Come
At one time, we operated under the assumption that an online community was built out of a good domain, hosting, and a sweet design. But there are plenty of well designed websites collecting dust because no one knows they exist. For a community to grow, it needs publicity, which comes in various forms. Our community can be found in organic search results. We can advertise and promote it. We can paste the url on billboards across the land, but as far as community is concerned, we need to realize the power of the invitation.
Inviting someone into a community is powerful. Facebook knows this and it’s why they want you to share everything you like with your friends. People long to belong and have an insatiable need for acceptance. Churches know this. So do gangs. And the sooner bloggers figure it out, the better. Invite people.
Great Content Is All You Need
I’ve said before that content is the currency of social media, and I stand by that truth. Content is the core of a great blog. It can be wrapped in a slick design and marketed via multiple channels, but if the content stinks, all incentive is lost for potential community members.
However, great content does not create community. Word on a page, no matter how eloquent, do not foster interpersonal connections between people. People do. Beyond content, a community demands and thrives on interaction. While interaction can be fostered by multiple mediums, it must be nurtured by a community manager. If you’re a blogger, that’s you. You’re not just a writer if you’re a blogger – you’re a people connector.
Offer Every Possible Feature
I grew up in a small community. We had a store, a fire station with a ballpark attached, and some churches. We didn’t have a mall or large supermarket. People who needed clothes and other essentials for life “went to town” to find them, but community happened there. That fire station became the location of an annual fair and everyone showed up. People stopped at the store to chat on their way home from work. It was a community without the bells and whistles.
Your blog or online community doesn’t need every possible feature. It may be that you add a discussion forum only to realize that your community would rather just comment on your posts. You might create a full-fledged social network only to realize your members would rather discuss your content on Twitter.
Just because features are possible doesn’t mean they are essential. Watch out for “feature creep.” Keep it simple. Think “relationships” instead of tools.
Comments Equal Community
Blogger Dave Lucas brought out an excellent point in his comment on the previous post about community:
Your post is dated June 8th… I’ve seen it displayed on other blogs and seen tweets about it… but you have two Lame comments (make that 3 with mine ;))… exactly what i come up against when I write “hit” posts!
Your “Community Theory” in real life on the net:
Yet I’ll see total BS crappily written posts get hundreds of comments! I won’t name any names, but after reading one of these I asked myself “what are these people smoking?” There were comments, links, kudos, tweets about a post written about getting blog traffic, a post so poorly-written that it bordered on idiocy! Yet it was tweeted and re-tweeted and blogged about by people who should know better! SOMETHING is wrong with this picture!
Your post here is well thought out and constructed. But it’s not attracting comments. I don’t understand why.
Dave highlights what I think is a growing trend of separation between comments and conversation. Blogs often reward commenters with backlinks, link love, and sometimes even “do follow” link juice. What inevitably happens is that people game the system for personal benefit. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing. These features can be nice and it can create some reciprocal benefits. The side effect, however, is that real conversation gives way to quick bursts like “nice post.” That isn’t really community.
Should you drop commenting from your blog? Absolutely not. Comments allow a platform for conversation whether it genuinely happens or not. Comments extend the content and offer a chance for critical thinking and response. But don’t assume that the number of comments received equals the real size of a community.
Community Only Happens On Your Site
Our understanding of this concept is rapidly changing as social networking continues to explode in popularity. Essentially, a blogger needs to understand that the conversation surrounding a piece of content takes place all over the web. Backtype, along with other similar tools, will take a url and trace its impact around the web, even showing top influencers who spread the content to begin with.
This principle has enormous advantages. Your community is now a band of evangelists helping to spread your brand around on the web.
You’re In Control At All Times
We are, by nature, control addicts, but control and community are not such good friends. Communities have a tendency to take on lives of their own. As a blogger, you have the advantage of framing discussions with your content and facilitating connections as an administrator, but your readers will still determine your success or failure in reaction to what you say and do. You can’t control people, and when you try, you destroy community.
Everyone Will Be As Devoted As You
The inevitable result of assuming every member of your community will be as devoted as you is frustration. I’ve witnessed plenty of melt downs and rants by bloggers who attempt to guilt their community members into being more faithful adherents and promoters. It never works.
Your blog is your baby, and you should have an attitude of gratefulness for every contribution to it. I’d rather have someone’s casual readership than to not have them at all, even if they never speak up. There are exceptions. There are communities that need greater accountability, but specific to blogging is the principle that the blogger is chief brand evangelist, communicator, facilitator, and community manager.
Your passion will drive the success of your online community. Your face will be the strand that connects others in relationship with each other. Your words will set the tone for discussion. It’s your community, make the very best of it.
The bottom line is that community never happens on accident. You need to define the nature of the community you want to build and then implement strategies to see its success.
Comments, Fuel community?
In addition to serving as Editor of Fuel Your Blogging, Brandon is also a Pastor at Saddleback Church and Online Community Coordinator for Pastors.com. He’s also a web designer, blogger, and church communications consultant. Catch him on his own blog or on Twitter.


One of the joys of blogging for me is actively participating in communities on my blog, other blogs, forums, etc. That said, I respect that the vast majority of readers are ‘lurkers.’ If I get the joy of writing and they get some information or inspiration from reading, then that’s a healthy community exchange in my book.
I’m with you, Jean. It’s different in a closed forum or a nonprofit cause, but with blogging in particular, I think passive relationships are just as valid as active ones.
I’ve spent the last two years of my life trying to develop a strong online community and I know from first hand this is one of the hardest tasks to accomplish as an online entrepreneur. I’ve had many issues with structure, rules and guidance.
No one is perfect and at times we have to know when we are wrong. On the same note we must stand up for what we believe in and if that is a great community then stick to your guns and make things work.
You will never please everyone and this is something we must all understand and come to accept. Take your time and build on the relationship that will work. Don’t dwell on the ones that are explosive. Simply avoid them for the better of the community.
Great article as always Brandon!
P.S I’ve messaged you a few times on skype about guest blogging here please do get into ontact with me using the address I commented with.
Thanks,
Brian
Brian, you’re one of the best at this! Thanks for stopping by! (and I’ll be in touch)
Great post Brandon,
It is very challenging building that loyalty. There is so much great information out there that people’s loyalty is spread too thin. I do believe that our audience is loyal to us and the content we provide, but there is only so much that we can all absorb. A lot of content gets passed up or missed, we have so many things to distract us.
I believe that good content will always find its way around the web, and will continue to bring people back to our blogs, its just not a very predictable and measurable return. We just have to keep generating!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this!
Dimi, you’re right on that. Not a day goes by that I don’t struggle with the best way to consume content. If I move away from RSS, I miss something, but if I stick with it, I don’t have time to read everything I’d like on Twitter. Then there are all the great aggregation tools. It’s a tougher world than ever for building true loyalty.
Brandon, Agreed.
The way I see it, if you love what you do you will keep doing it no matter what the return (to some degree). Especially if what you are doing is contributing value to the community.
The blogs that are created purely for profit will never last this tough world as you mentioned.
Great insight Brandon…. It is obvious that there is experience behind these words! Building community is indeed fickle, and while there is no question that you can game the system, the question always comes down to ‘to what end are you blogging and building the community?’ – I believe that sustainable communities arise from peoples passions mixed with a little luck. Take a look what is happening over on http://dailybooth.com/JD/5536478 – Its clear that people want to interact and where there is mutual interest, people will find a way :) Invitation is definitely powerful and so is getting out of your community – communities are living breathing entities… unless there is fresh life being breathed in from new people and new events etc, it will quickly consume itself.
I love that last point about getting out. The harsh truth is that communities are either growing or dying, but almost never truly at a standstill.
Great post, I love the stance that you take on community! It is interesting to follow the different communities around “our circle” to see what keeps them going.
I feel that there is no way to really build them, which all of your points address. You can start the area for them to revolve around and there is necessary actions to support them, but it is really a matter of people being passionate about the content.
Thank your for putting these points together!
Very true – “passionate about the content” – I like that!
Excellent post Brandon. We have a community for community managers (http://www.themoderatorcommunity.com) that provides resources, jobs and event listings related to community management. Whilst it isn’t driven by conversations as much as we’d like (if you or any others have any suggestions … :) please don’t hesitate to get in touch), it does provide an invaluable pool of resources for community managers. I’ve uploaded your post and will definitely keep an eye out for more of your insight! Thanks again. Louise.
Thanks Louise – I’ll check it out!
Good post and great insight, Brandon… I especially take #1 to heart. Publicity and effective online marketing can grow a community very fast. Facebook’s structure and platform for viral growth is something more bloggers should analyze and strategically implement. Just re-tweeted this :)
Thanks Matthew!
Spot on! Great content, great way to pass the message! Keep it up.
We’ll try our best, Martin!
Excellent tips, especially the last one. There is no place for a sense of entitlement when building a community. Also thanks for the Backtype link.
No problem and thanks for reading!
Brandon,
More often than not, your posts seem to spawn many comments that actually add to your content and the discussion. Perhaps it’s your experience as a pastor writing sermons with a call to action in the form of an altar call at the end? I don’t really feel that it is contrived or forced on your part though. I rarely see “nice post” comments on your posts (perhaps you delete them as spam) so what is your secret? Why do I feel so compelled to comment?
Brad
Brad… Jedi mind tricks. You’ll get there, young padawan…
;)
Honestly you couldn’t have said it better. Building an online community takes time and work. I’m finding that out on my blog as well and learning strategies for making things happen but the last line is what really hit and should be the whole point for anyone:
“The bottom line is that community never happens on accident. You need to define the nature of the community you want to build and then implement strategies to see its success.”
You have to FIRST know what you’re after and then figure out a way to get it and then in time once it starts happening, keep doing it and work hard not to get side tracked.
Great article here! :)
Couldn’t just step out of your blog after stepping through the door!
I think I’ll have to stay in here for some more minutes and gulp your content on building a community with blogs.
Thanks for these great insights.