Start. Launch. Go. Begin. Commence. BLOG!
Editor’s Note: I’ve been reading the blog of Lindsey Nobles for several months now, but a post she wrote about her first year of blogging caught my attention and she was readily willing to write a post for us about her experience. I’d also love to hear about your experiences in the comments…
A little over a year ago, I told a few friends that I wanted to start a blog. They looked at me in utter disbelief and said, “What are you going to write about?” They might as well have asked, “What in the world do YOU have to say?” Feeling a little defeated, I answered, “I’m not really sure, I just want to try it and see if I like it.”
Candidly, when I began blogging, I had no clue what I was going to write about it, or even if I could write. I certainly couldn’t tell you the difference between Wordpress and Blogger, Hosted and Self-Hosted, widgets and plug-ins. I didn’t know if I would have anyone that would be interested enough to read what I had to say. And I certainly didn’t know that my parents would be printing off posts and showing them to their friends (because I assure you if I knew that I would have never ever started).
So completely naive, I began to blog. And I must tell you I have loved every minute of it. Here are three reasons why:
I have a new community of friends supporting and encouraging me. Probably my favorite thing about blogging is the people I have connected with as a result. I love interacting with people from all over Tennessee, all over the country, all over the world. Geography becomes irrelevant.
Blogs bind us together by allowing us to focus on what we have in common, instead of our differences, instead of our distance. Blogging has helped me form meaningful relationships with people who get me, my questions and my struggles. Daily I find myself supported and encouraged by my readers friends.
I have learned so much about myself through the process of writing. Some days I sit down at my computer and have no idea what I am writing about until a post is published. Some days as I read back over I post, I wonder where the words came from.
As an extrovert, I am not always good about taking time alone to process. But blogging forces me into a quiet place to think. It forces me to think about how I feel, what I am afraid to say, and who I want to be. It forces me to craft my often-convoluted feelings into concise words or questions.
Blogging makes me want to be a better version of myself. Blogging has reminded me that I am drawn to people that are real, transparent, encouraging, and inspirational. It has reminded me that is the kind of person I am striving to be. So blogging serves as a gut-check. Am I being a person that other people want to be around? Am I being real? Am I staying true to myself regardless of my audience? Am I being inspirational? Am I being the person God created me to be?
Blogging has changed my life, because blogging has changed me.
Lindsey Nobles works as Thomas Nelson Publishing’s Director of Corporate Communications and previously worked in both marketing and merchandising roles for Books-A-Million. She writes at LindseyNobles.com and you can follow her on Twitter @lnobles.


Lindsey, I love this post! Just last night I was sitting at my computer, trying to think of something to blog about. And I wondered, WHY am I doing this? Could I ever just STOP? I realized quickly that I couldn’t, because blogging has become part of WHO I AM.
Also, I’ve had friends ask the same types of questions, “What on earth do you write about?” Hearing that is only second to “Who reads it – your mom?” and “Oh, I just don’t have time for that sort of thing.” :-)
One of my closest friends (who doesn’t blog) sent me a note last week telling me how much she loved my blog. She said sometimes she would go back and read all posts to get perspective. It was the nicest compliment I had received on my blog. I thought “this is why I do it.”
I love this.
When I started blogging, I had someone tell me that spending time writing a blog is akin to my kids playing video games – so basically – that it’s a complete waste of time. And this person had read my blog. Ouch!
But, to be totally honest, I get alot of encouragement from the little community that has popped up in my personal blogosphere. I’m still trying to get my head around the idea of having “virtual” freindships. But I love giving and recieving love and affirmation without the goegraphical, financial, or socio/economic boundaries that can hinder us in “real life”. :)
I completely agree! I find blogging to be more productive than video games. :)
Hi Lindsey,
I agree that blogging makes me want to be a better version of myself. When I’m writing, I try to be careful that I don’t write something that will discourage someone or cause them to do something destruction. I want to be inspiring and encouraging and in order to d o that, for the most part, I’m going to have to follow the very advice I give others – and strangely enough – that’s becomes hard sometimes.
I’m glad you decided to blog and are willing to share your experiences with the world. When I started a year and two weeks ago – I had no clue either – so we have a lot in common! :)
A lot in common!
You talked about blogging as an extrovert. Forcing you to think. I had to laugh. I am an introvert. I know what I think. Blogging forces me to let others in on what is going on in my head.
I started my blog almost a year ago. It has been one of the best things in my life this year. All the things you mentioned – the friends, support, encouragement. It isn’t just having a blog…it is being part of the blogging community.
I am a blogger. It is part of who I am. And I don’t intend to change that any time soon.
Yes, I am sure it is a totally different outlet for introverts like you. It pulls you out!
This is a very inspiring post! Thanks!
Thank you, Kevin.
As an extrovert, I am not always good about taking time alone to process. But blogging forces me into a quiet place to think.
iLike =) i feel the same way. i am an uber-extrovert (just check my twitterfeeds and you’ll see it right away) and blogging & writing has helped me to enjoy some alone time with me and my over-analyzing mind.
and it’s a privilege that God uses my over-analyzing mind to speak to others about what He’s doing in my life as well.
I feel the same way. It is a privilege that God uses me to speak to others.
As a SAHM I sometimes wonder if I should be blogging. It takes away from time with my kids, home and (sometimes) husband. I feel doubt that I’m even a good enough writer to hold people’s attention. The fear that I actually have nothing to say and people are laughing at me for taking myself so seriously is a constant nagging on my brain.
But…then I write a post about a struggle I’m having, an experience I’ve had or something God’s teaching me and people comment. They connect with what I’ve said. They encourage me in my struggles or tell me how I’ve encouraged them.
That’s when I realize that it’s worth it and it become vital to me.
Great post, Lindsey…and I love your blog!
Thanks Melissa? SAHM? Got the S and the M…but the A and the H…no idea. :)
It’s getting to the point I feel I can’t write “top notch post, Lindsey” because they all seem to be on that top notch level. :)
Awww, thanks.
Lindsey,
I love reading and look forward to your blog posts, and find them to be very inspiring! I would say that you’ve found a part of your purpose in the Lord through blogging.
I’m a very new blogger… and believe that God is working through me to reach others too… while it’s very easy to be bold and brave here on the internet, I’m actually a very shy ENFJ person (google it, a personality type…).
Keep Being Great !!!
Chris
i love this post Lindsey! you have totally wrapped words around why i have come to love blogging so much… i i loved your statement…
“Blogging makes me want to be a better version of myself.”
it helps me see myself differently, my marriage differently, it reminds me of all of the positives in my life… and in the process of being encouraged myself, we have the awesome privilege as bloggers to also encourage others too… what a blessing!
With you…it is a privilege to be able to share my thoughts with others in a way that gets them thinking and encourages them.
I began (officially) blogging a year ago in August so I can relate to everything you describe. I find the friends I’ve made to be as valuable to me as those I know in “real” life. I’ve even had the pleasure of meeting a few face to face and forming relationships offline as well. Blogging has also helped me become a better writer as I take more notice of life as it happens, capture the details with more focus.
Yes, I love taking the online relationships offline. I have gotten to know so many people locally through putting myself out there on my blog.
I couldn’t agree with you more. Blogging in a way has opened up a world up possibilities to me, but, as you said, the friends I’ve made are priceless and I’ve only been been blogging for a short while.
I completely relate to this post. I was real unsure if I could write. (I mean I have hard enough time communicating with my mouth) I think that the biggest thing that I have noticed is how I now perceive life. I find myself more and more often saying, “That’s beautiful.” It’s forcing me to be creative which is a good thing. Thanks for sharing, I truly love reading your stuff.
@pastorMichaelP
You’re Director of Corporate Communications at the largest Christian publishing house in the world and you didn’t know you can write?
I’m sorry, but that’s just plain hilarious!
:-)
Great post, Lindsey
You know…press releases and posts that people actually want to read are two very different things ;)
Okay. WOW! I could identify with everything you wrote here. Yay, Lindsey!
As the British would say, “I’m going to pop by your flat.” (AkA I’m gonna visit your blog.) I’m headed over there now, and I look forward to beginning a friendship.
Marty Duane
I don’t think anyone British has ever called a blog a ‘flat’. Ever. Probably
:-)
Okay. That’s what I thought too.
But I had a Brit “pop by my flat” and use that exact term when they described the way they found my blog. Upon following them back to their blog/flat, I found out they were British.
Oh wait, you are British, aren’t you? So I shouldn’t even be fighting my point. :D